I think both's fine. You all went through a lot.

[ a specific set of things that the people who hadn't killed or died probably wouldn't be able to understand. those who'd killed especially. ]

... Oh, about when we were in Throné and Temenos' world? How was he after that? We didn't really get to sit and chat it all out afterwards.

[ and then he got thrown out into the lake, half dead. y'know. a casual thursday. ]